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RELAUNCHING PRENATAL AND POSTNATAL YOGA & MOVEMENT CLASSES

Posted by Feb 5, 2024 Burlington, Doula, fitness, Happiness, health, motherhood, new year's resolutions, Oakville, Oakville Doula, parenthood, parenting, Postnatal Doula, Pregnancy, Prenatal Yoga, workout, yoga Leave a Comment
RELAUNCHING PRENATAL AND POSTNATAL YOGA & MOVEMENT CLASSES

For 12 years I supported young families in Halton through prenatal yoga, postnatal yoga and fitness classes. It was through these classes that doula work found me. I grew a lovely community of parents and their babies and I’ve stayed in contact with many of them. When lockdowns closed studios, my classes ended abruptly. I tried to do online classes on zoom for a while but it just wasn’t for me. I was asked by multiple studios to come back and start weekly classes again but it just wasn’t ever the right fit for me and the work I do as a doula. 

I am now happy to say that I am offering in-home yoga and movement classes again in Halton region. I have limited day-time slots available for individuals or small groups. Clients commit to at least 4 weeks of classes. I come to your home with yoga props to make it very convenient for you. 

Prenatal Yoga & Movement:

One-hour session designed to alleviate pregnancy discomforts and prepare the body for birth and parenthood. Movements are tailored to your body. Each session contains active and restful components leaving you feeling energized and peaceful.

Baby and Me Yoga & Movement:

One-hour session designed to promote strengthening and healing through movement and breath work. Baby stays close and might be incorporated into some of the exercises. All movements are designed with postpartum healing in mind.

Grab some gal pals and make a commitment to yourself.

Contact me for rates and availability. Spots are limited!

Embracing Empowerment: The Benefits of Prenatal Breast Hand Expression

Posted by Jan 15, 2024 Baby, Breastfeeding, Burlington, Burlington Doula, Doula, Happiness, health, motherhood, Oakville, Oakville Doula, parenthood, Pregnancy Leave a Comment
Embracing Empowerment: The Benefits of Prenatal Breast Hand Expression

Pregnancy is a transformative journey marked by numerous physical and emotional changes. Amidst the excitement and anticipation, expectant mothers often seek ways to enhance their prenatal experience and prepare for the upcoming breastfeeding journey. One empowering technique gaining attention is prenatal breast hand expression. This gentle practice offers a multitude of benefits for both mother and baby, fostering a stronger connection and setting the stage for a successful breastfeeding experience. As a doula, I have been teaching this technique to my clients for several years and I have observed that those who practice prenatal hand expression generally have more confidence when starting to breastfeed baby.  

Here are some of the benefits:

1. **Establishing a Bond Before Birth:**

   Prenatal breast hand expression provides an opportunity for expectant mothers to connect with their unborn baby. As they gently massage and express colostrum, the first milk produced during pregnancy, mothers establish a physical connection that transcends the womb. This intimate act fosters a sense of closeness and enhances the emotional bond between mother and child before birth.

2. **Promoting Early Colostrum Collection:**

   Colostrum, often referred to as “liquid gold,” is a concentrated source of nutrients and antibodies crucial for a newborn’s early development. Prenatal hand expression enables mothers to collect this precious substance in small amounts before giving birth. Storing colostrum can be particularly beneficial in case of any breastfeeding challenges postpartum, or separation from baby, ensuring the baby receives this essential nutrition from the very beginning.

3. **Reducing Engorgement and Discomfort:**

   Engorgement, the swelling of breasts due to an increased blood flow and milk production, is a common postpartum concern. Prenatal hand expression can help reduce the risk of engorgement by gradually releasing built-up colostrum. This proactive approach contributes to a more comfortable breastfeeding experience for the mother and encourages the baby to latch onto the breast more easily.

4. **Boosting Maternal Confidence:**

   Learning and mastering prenatal breast hand expression empowers expectant mothers by giving them a hands-on understanding of their bodies. This newfound skill fosters confidence as they approach the breastfeeding journey, knowing that they can actively contribute to their baby’s well-being from the very start. Maternal confidence is a key factor in the success of breastfeeding relationships.

5. **Preparing for Potential Breastfeeding Challenges:**

   Breastfeeding may present challenges, such as latch issues or delayed milk production. Prenatal breast hand expression serves as a proactive measure, equipping mothers with the skills to navigate these challenges. By familiarizing themselves with their bodies and learning to express colostrum, expectant mothers are better prepared to address potential breastfeeding hurdles with resilience and determination.

In embracing prenatal breast hand expression, expectant mothers embark on a journey of empowerment and connection with their unborn child. This gentle practice not only promotes the early collection of valuable colostrum but also nurtures maternal confidence and prepares mothers for the breastfeeding adventure that lies ahead. By incorporating this technique into their prenatal routine, mothers can lay the foundation for a positive breastfeeding experience, promoting the health and well-being of both themselves and their newborns. Teaching this technique and providing my clients with more resources is one way I can support their infant feeding journey. 

Mindset matters during labour and birth

Posted by Jan 8, 2024 Birth, Burlington, Burlington Doula, Doula, Happiness, health, motherhood, Oakville, Oakville Doula, parenthood, parenting, Pregnancy, Prenatal Yoga, workout Leave a Comment
Mindset matters during labour and birth

During labour your mind responds similarly to when you begin a new workout or physical activity. In the beginning it feels difficult and you start an inner dialogue around whether you think you can last the entire time. In that moment it feels like it will always be this tough. Perhaps you tense up, you allow your mind to go elsewhere and start to rationalize the idea of leaving this discomfort. RIGHT HERE is where your mindset can have a massive impact on your experience and endurance, physically and emotionally. 

If you say to yourself “you can do this!”, “you are strong!”, “you were meant to do this!” You just might find that it gets easier. You get used to it. You find a rhythm or a ritual. As a doula I see this in clients in early labour when their bodies are just starting to get used to labour as well as anytime there is an increase in intensity; often just as active labour is starting or during transition (8cm to 10cm). It’s not easy for you to change your mindset on your own so discuss this with your care team and communicate ways they can encourage and support you. Even people who have done a lot of preparation or have birthed before doubt themselves at some point during labour. 

Here are just a few ways you can practice a positive mindset before the intensity of labour begins:

  1. Reflect on a time when you felt challenged physically or mentally in your life. How did you get through it? Were you surprised that you did? What did you learn about yourself through that experience?
  2. Practice mindfulness every day and notice your thoughts when you are in uncomfortable situations. What happens in your body? Where do your thoughts go? What changes can you do to make the moment more comfortable for you? 
  3. Learn about birth. Learn what to expect to help with any anxieties, concerns or doubts. When your mind has an idea what to expect it is easier to manage when you get to that point. With labour and birth it is difficult to practice or anticipate exactly how it will feel but even a small amount of understanding can make a difference. 
  4. Prepare your birth team. Speak to them about what you need to have a positive mindset. That might include learning your non-verbal cues and discussing how you will communicate in the moment. Giving them some phrases, strategies or techniques to help you through the difficult times and help you to come back to your ideal mindset, over and over again!

So just like that tough workout when you want to quit, give up and get back to being more comfortable labour can force you to face challenging moments that, with proper support and preparation, can leave you feeling strong and confident as you transition to parenthood. 

The Value of a birth DOULA

Posted by Apr 19, 2023 Birth, Burlington, Burlington Doula, Doula, health, motherhood, Oakville, Oakville Doula, parenthood, parenting, Pregnancy , , , Leave a Comment
The Value of a birth DOULA

I have heard varying reactions to what I charge. Everything from “Wow, that seems like a lot of money” to “Really that is it for all that you do?”.

If you are a numbers person you might sit down with your calculator and attach a value to to the tasks that we would do for you when deciding whether or not to hire a doula. I could argue that some ways we support might be impossible to attach a numerical value but you could try. We know that each individual values things differently. One person might feel that their gender reveal party is more important to them than the outcome of their birth and another might feel differently. Here are a few of the ways that we support our clients;

  • On-going availability throughout pregnancy for resources, questions, holding space for your experiences.
  • Personalized birth and postpartum planning. Everything from knowing what to expect at your birthing location, how to advocate, comfort measures, strategies to thrive once baby is here and anything else that YOU need support with. This is VERY different from reading blogs and books. This is for you and your family and addresses your needs and wants. We come to your home and spend roughly 3-4 hours with you. Plus time on calls, answering emails and texts. 
  • Being on-call for you from approximately 37 weeks until you have your baby. This means that we organize our lives so that when labour starts we are there for you virtually and then in-person. This is challenging and requires a lot of effort. In some cases, our lives are put on hold. We don’t know with certainty when we will be needed so we are constantly checking in and ensuring that you feel supported throughout.
  • In-person support for you and your partner from the time that you need us until several hours after birth. This is often the part that people attach value. They wonder “how long do I think I will be in labour for” and divide our fees by this number of hours. But this is not reality. This is when we are completely dedicated to you. All other meetings, visits, family responsibilities are on hold for us and we are there for you. 
  • Since births usually require us to be awake and alert through the night, it can some times take us days to recover. More cancelled events for us in the hopes that we get enough rest before our next client goes into labour or that we are needed for someone else. 
  • During the postpartum time we are there for you to reassure you, answer questions and do follow up visits. There aren’t many alternatives for this type of support and people tend to underestimate how challenging this time is and how important it would be to having someone like a doula on your team. 

Doulas are almost always independent contractions who are self-employed. We have various operating costs like website, insurance, gas, mileage, etc. And we have less obvious costs like certifications, trainings, paying the employer portion of our CPP. If we cannot pay for these items then we can’t continue operating as a doula. 

So, yes you can sit down with your calculator and figure out how much you value birth doula support. OR, you can think about how it would feel to have ALL of this support, feel that you were taken care of throughout the most important time of your life, have someone with you for immediate chest feeding help (very rare!) and then reflect on how much that is worth to you.